The most perfect family prayer is the Sunday Mass when the various families
in the community express their faith with the parish family and with
the Church of God throughout the world. Recent use of the Do this
in memory of me program in many parishes have developed
this sense of belonging to a wider family and deepened the commitment
of many families, schools and parishes.
Some resources are being prepared to develop this sense of family prayer.
In the meantime, the passage below is reproduced from the Bishops'
Pastoral letter of 1980 "Handing on the Faith
in the home."
Little children
love to pray. They pray quite naturally, because God is very real for
them and very close for them. But if they are to stay praying as adults,
prayer must be part of their home life, from their earliest years,
and not just of school life.
Parents, the most essential part of teaching
religion to your children is to teach them to pray. You will teach
them to pray, not by telling them to pray, not by scolding them if
they don't say their prayers. You will teach them to pray more by praying
with them.
Don't just tell your children: "Go off to bed now and don't forget
to say your prayers." Instead say: "We will say our prayers
now."
Pray with your young children. Pray with your older children.
Be seen praying by your children. If prayer is important for you, it
will be seen as important by your children. Parents who pray, homes
that pray, prepare a praying generation for the future.
In fact, you
parents will learn about praying yourselves by praying with your children.
Little
children are very close to God. Didn't Our Lord say: "The
Kingdom of Heaven belongs to little children."
Your children will
bring you also closer to God. Children often understand God better
than grown-ups do. Their ways of praying can teach us all a lot about
how to pray.
full
text of 1980 Pastoral letter is available here